As I start the new school year next week, I want to commit to a theme: teamwork. I want students to know HOW to work in a group, WHY it's important, and WHAT to do if something doesn't go the way it's expected. Of course, they will need to be held accountable for their individual goals, but I want a feeling of collective ownership in the class.
One of the ways I was thinking of introducing this is with "Lessons from the Geese." In one of the *yawn* countless professional developments I've attended, this one stuck with me for some reason. It goes like this:
I want the class to use more "we" statements, rather than "I" statements. I want them to get somewhere together. Celebrate each other's successes. We'll see how it goes.
At home, our different personalities sometimes clash. It's been nice to help the boys get started in the morning, instead of focusing on just MY rush to work. By the time the alarm goes off, older brother is ready, willing, able, downstairs, setting the table, changed, and so on. BUT, the younger brother likes to take...his...sweet...time.....
|Okay, so he DID put his socks on....|
If you've read some of the past posts, we're trying really hard to stay positive, and not do the yelling and the pressuring. Little brother broke down last week wailing, "Why am I so sloowwww?" I wanted to chuckle, but he was so genuine. I bent down to his eye-level, hugged him, and said, "Some people take their time, and that's okay. But you know what? You've got your brother, your dad, and me to help you out! We're a team." As soon as I said that, his shoulders relaxed and he continued on the morning routine.
It made me think of how in teams, people count on each other, and good coaches teach that. Teammates work together to get to their goals. It also makes me think that coaches have such a profound responsibility to help instill this value. We're so lucky that we've encountered so many committed coaches (of course, there have been some of the others) that helped the boys improve their skills.
Jesse gets a pass from a teammate (Coach Dad taught them about transition offense)
Jason takes the shot after great passes from teammates (coach taught them to look for open teammates)
Hopefully, the boys will encourage and help their teammates, whether the team is their family, classmates, or even strangers. And we want them to be thoughtful especially when encountering a situation where we may not be around to remind them. Bury "boys will be boys."